The difference of you and me

"Your confidence and laid-back personality must've come from there. I have confidence and a laid-back personality, too. But you're different from me. I tried hard to have that personality and you naturally have it. Someone who tried hard can recognize someone who naturally has that disposition. It makes them even more depressed. I didn't have a happy childhood and my family was nothing to boast about..."

Seo Yi Soo - A Gentleman's Dignity